“He was real nice. He wasn’t a bad child at all,” said Dyer, cradling Ware’s 10-month-old daughter and wearing a red T-shirt that said, “Love is being a grandma.”
“I enjoyed being with him. He gave us respect. He was a real nice kid.. I never had to spank him or put him on punishment.”
Asked how Ware avoided getting into the trouble that was all around him, Dyer said she didn’t know.
“I really don’t understand why but he didn’t,” Dyer said. “He was just a different child.”
IMPACTING 30 LIVES A YEAR
Tired of moving and wanting to help take care of his mom, sister and grandparents, Ware chose CSUB over San Diego State and the UCs into which he was also accepted.
He studied civil engineering for a year, but then the program shut down. Ware had to come up with a whole new game plan.
“One day I sat on the wall outside DDH with a pamphlet of course offerings and career paths and I thought, ‘What is something that wouldn’t be repetitive, where I wouldn’t be in a cubicle, and that would allow me to impact individual lives?”
He realized that through teaching, he could impact 30 lives a year.
“So that’s where I landed,” Ware said. “I had the best time, the best counselors.”
Wanting to finish up his education as quickly as possible, Ware course-overloaded and earned his bachelor’s degree and teaching credential in just less than four years. He worked at John’s Incredible Pizza full-time the whole way through.
“I went to school from 7 to 3 and worked from 3:30 to 11:30. And then when I student-taught, I worked from 11 to 7 and student-taught from 7:30 to 3.,“ he said.
It’s another reason he’s such a fan of the residency program. The residents don’t have to exhaust themselves like he did or take out huge student loans.
Ware’s first teaching job was teaching third grade at Owens Primary School. Then he taught fourth grade at Jefferson and Roosevelt Elementary schools. His career path was intentional.
“There aren’t too many times a student will have an African-American male teacher in elementary,” he said. “I did not want to take away from them having that.”
He left the classroom in 2012 to work as an academic coach at McKinley Elementary, teaching teachers how to teach. That way he could impact hundreds of students a year. Two years later he was promoted to the district office to become an instructional specialist.
He’s been in his current role since 2016.
‘HE TELLS A GREAT STORY’
Ware is particularly good at lighting a fire under teachers who may be in a rut or who have lost touch with the district, including those who are older and more experienced than he is, said Assistant Superintendent of Educational Services Mark Luque.
He does it by sharing the story of his childhood and conveying the urgency of giving students a quality education.
“He tells a great story. You can’t help but be captured by his personality,” Luque said. “He’s a very energetic guy and he can capture an audience with that.
“He’s also a great role model for our students,” Luque went on to say. “He can stand before them and say, ‘It doesn’t matter the challenges you have. I understand and empathize with your challenges, but you can choose to be different. It’s up to you to make that happen.”
Ware and his wife, Melissa, have been married for five years. She’s a third-grade teacher.